Let Love Begin
Love has no where to go when guarded by anger, bitterness, un-forgiveness and pain. How can you even receive love while harboring such feelings? What has occurred was true, it was real, and you’ll perhaps never forget it. But in order to let love begin again, you must make a way for it. You must create a portal in your soul, through your heart to reach out to some soul in dire need of what you have to offer. Be reminded, that the soul on the receiving end is doing all they can to let love begin as well. Remember, the one to whom you are giving love has just let their portal open and is learning again the process of giving and receiving. Most of us know how to give things, but learning how to receive has a direct connection to how healthy we are internally. To be uncomfortable with receiving gifts, praises and accolades is a sign that there is yet some growth to be done on the inside. Perhaps your love is bound. Giving and receiving is a direct connection to love. Love gives always, and if love gives, then there must be someone to give it to. There is no such thing as being a loving person and always choosing to be alone. Loving people must have people to give and share that love with. Again, a sign that you must let love begin is when you find yourself isolated and sheltered from friends, family and people in general (not due to uncontrollable circumstances, but things that you can change). When it’s your choice to live the deeper life that doesn’t include anyone else, I question how deep that life really is. The deeper life is a more giving and thereby more loving life. People often say I deserve to be happy, I’m going to live my life for me so I can be happy. That statement in and of itself lets me know how unhappy you are. Catering to self will never bring happiness. Happiness comes when you love yourself enough to love others. So to say you are living for you, is to kill the possibility of happiness altogether. When you can say I’m living for others, is when you are really saying I’m okay with myself. But you may be saying, I’ve tried that, and people have taken advantage of me. And I would say yes this is true, and they will again. The key to letting love begin is not expecting the type of return you want. Because if you do, then there again you are living for you on your terms. You must let go and open this portal so that true love can pour out of you. True love is selfless. I know people who have great love in their hearts and are potentially wonderful people. But their unhappiness makes them mean and undesirable. The best way to get past this self life and let love begin is to get a relationship with God. He will teach you what it means to live for Him. This is awesome training for those who have to live in this world for others, who may or may not even appreciate what you have done for them. Just know that when you live for God, He never forgets or dishonors your life as a sacrifice. Once you can see and grasp His faithfulness toward you, how others treat your love will not matter. Blessings to you today my friends! I challenge you to let love begin, open a small portal until the floodgates pour out all that stored up love inside of you. Have a great day!
Love has no where to go when guarded by anger, bitterness, un-forgiveness and pain. How can you even receive love while harboring such feelings? What has occurred was true, it was real, and you’ll perhaps never forget it. But in order to let love begin again, you must make a way for it. You must create a portal in your soul, through your heart to reach out to some soul in dire need of what you have to offer. Be reminded, that the soul on the receiving end is doing all they can to let love begin as well. Remember, the one to whom you are giving love has just let their portal open and is learning again the process of giving and receiving. Most of us know how to give things, but learning how to receive has a direct connection to how healthy we are internally. To be uncomfortable with receiving gifts, praises and accolades is a sign that there is yet some growth to be done on the inside. Perhaps your love is bound. Giving and receiving is a direct connection to love. Love gives always, and if love gives, then there must be someone to give it to. There is no such thing as being a loving person and always choosing to be alone. Loving people must have people to give and share that love with. Again, a sign that you must let love begin is when you find yourself isolated and sheltered from friends, family and people in general (not due to uncontrollable circumstances, but things that you can change). When it’s your choice to live the deeper life that doesn’t include anyone else, I question how deep that life really is. The deeper life is a more giving and thereby more loving life. People often say I deserve to be happy, I’m going to live my life for me so I can be happy. That statement in and of itself lets me know how unhappy you are. Catering to self will never bring happiness. Happiness comes when you love yourself enough to love others. So to say you are living for you, is to kill the possibility of happiness altogether. When you can say I’m living for others, is when you are really saying I’m okay with myself. But you may be saying, I’ve tried that, and people have taken advantage of me. And I would say yes this is true, and they will again. The key to letting love begin is not expecting the type of return you want. Because if you do, then there again you are living for you on your terms. You must let go and open this portal so that true love can pour out of you. True love is selfless. I know people who have great love in their hearts and are potentially wonderful people. But their unhappiness makes them mean and undesirable. The best way to get past this self life and let love begin is to get a relationship with God. He will teach you what it means to live for Him. This is awesome training for those who have to live in this world for others, who may or may not even appreciate what you have done for them. Just know that when you live for God, He never forgets or dishonors your life as a sacrifice. Once you can see and grasp His faithfulness toward you, how others treat your love will not matter. Blessings to you today my friends! I challenge you to let love begin, open a small portal until the floodgates pour out all that stored up love inside of you. Have a great day!